But I'm SO tired of it! I saw the new movie
Sex and the City this weekend and while overall I
really liked the movie, I was
really bothered by the excessive materialism in it. A $300 pillow? BLECH!
One of the best lessons I've learned from living in Hawaii and from the students at my school is that "more" isn't always better. Its amazing how focusing on the simple beauties of life (love, family, friendship, nature, laughter, etc.) can really bring a person closer to true happiness. I love how many students at my school don't really care about fashion. For a few students, they're not into fashion because they genuinely can't afford it. Many other students, however, come from families and cultures where most of the time a t-shirt, gym shorts, and the same beat-up pair of "slippahs" (aka flip-flops) that they've worn as long as they've fit is just fine. No need for fancy hair-dos and make-up. And a beat-up backpack or bag will do the job just fine. Really, they have it better. Their wardrobes may be a little older and less fancy, but students still wear clean, functional clothes. And they are free from worry about keeping up with the latest trends. What else does anyone need? Once every year or so, I go through my closet and donate a few large grocery bags of clothes to Goodwill. Its really silly. I don't usually get new stuff because I
need it. I get it because it meets some short-lived desire such as "its cute!" or "it minimizes my butt!"

So, inspired by my adopted culture and community, I am declaring "No more!" I am challenging myself to the following and I'd be happy if any of you want to join me:
As of June 1, 2008, I will no longer buy clothes. That's right: NO MORE CLOTHES! (Or bags, or jewelry, or accessories, etc.) And I will avoid accepting gifts of these. I really have enough, so I'm going to stick with what I've got. I am allowing myself a few small exceptions:
- I will permit myself to replace any garment that is genuinely worn-out (incl. shoes, socks, "slippahs", undies, etc.)
- I will allow myself to buy new clothes with three unspent gift certificates that I have. I plan on doing this in the near future so I can really begin my "year without clothes shopping."
- Gifts for OTHERS: I will allow myself to buy clothes as gifts for other people, but I will avoid accepting gifts of clothing. Please support me by NOT buying me gifts of clothing. :-)
- Precious stones: Seriously, if George (or anyone else!) is wants to buy me fancy jewelry with rubies or diamonds, I'm not passing it up. Is that hypocrisy? I don't care. :-)
Anyway, that's it. That's my challenge. Please wish me luck. I know it will be hard for this occasional shopoholic. On June 1st, I had to drag myself away from the cutest pair of shorts
ever. (Yes,
ever.) But really...who cares? Will those shorts bring me happiness? Can't I live without them? Yes, I can. And I will.
"Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you." - Nathaniel Hawthorne (1804-1864)